“Diederik said: ‘You are not here to make friends, you’re here to become friends with yourself!’. Diederik is confrontational, you cannot escape him. The work is huge. Everything that happens to me, I created for myself! That is just what I don’t want to hear. So I keep resisting. I am resisting to hear and accept the ultimate truth about me: that I am Love. And as long as I don’t see the love in any other human being, I will not see it in myself. That is the meaning of oneness. 6 intensive days of hard working on new beliefs, and undoing old beliefs. And in the meantime: good healthy food, beautiful weather, tremendous walks and meeting new friends. It was my best holiday ever.”
“The Six Step Process has changed and improved my life profoundly and radically, it’s a wonderful tool that helps me every day since I discovered it 3 years ago. Diederik taught me to handle my triggers of devastating rage and anger which had ‘killed’ all my relationships before, privately and professionally. Through all this my life has changed toward a more and more peaceful and enjoyable life which never even seemed possible before.”
“The Six Step Process really works! It has improved my life in all directions very much!”
“I came to the relationship workshop with my partner and I felt so tired, almost exhausted about our relationship. Tired because I knew some things stood in the way for so many years now. I now know this is the voice of my ego. And although I already was a little bit aware of the work (of Choose Again) and from day one I could understand it was about me, again, the voice of my ego told me other things. I could still hear it telling me, ‘sure, it’s about me, but really it’s about my husband and I told myself he has to be honest to tell things otherwise I had to tell it for him!
But again, from the first day I knew and I felt and was convinced it was and is only about me!! Thanks to the authentic and professional teachings by Diederik, Paul, and Andrea, (to me they were perfect.) I could stick to my own process, without distracting myself to my partner’s process. From day two I wasn’t tired any more. The variety over the days from meditating, to outings, felt like it was exactly the way it should be. Thank you very much!”
Starting in January, 2016, we have held a meeting every Monday night, employing the Choose Again Six-Step-Process.
It is a practical method, requiring no prior knowledge of A Course in Miracles or beliefs.
Once learned and practiced, one can use this process every day, often several times each day, to overcome upsets and to regain, maintain, and enhance our peace of mind.
Blessings to Diederik Wolsak and others at Choose Again for making this available to all who want serenity! - J Fox
"Thank you so much for the workshop. I have been 'doing homework' almost daily and I have experienced new thoughts/perspectives on many old junk e(go)-mails. I feel lighter, unburdened. With deepest gratitude..." - SK
"Damit konnte ich arbeiten und mich so endlich aus dem Gefühl der Ohnmacht lösen." - CW
"I am a professional therapist. I lived in the Eastern countries for a number of years and I am somewhat versed with the concepts of self awareness and the practice of yoga and meditation. Yet, while being in El Cielo (the Residential Centre in Costa Rica) I found a whole new dimension of being and living that enriched my life." - DY
"The impact of Choose Again has been huge in my life. I have been involved with Choose Again for ten years, and can honestly say life is getting better for me all the time!" - DH
"Choose Again has been a great benefit for our family. Diederik Wolsak’s patient and steady counsel through quotes like “be gentle with yourself” have provided me with a guide on my journey to ‘get over myself’. Association with Choose Again and its counsellors have helped me in my personal life and my job." - D H
Find out what other people think of us!
We try to get as much feedback as we can so we know we are doing our best for you. Here are some of the great things people had to say about our workshops and intensive retreats.