What is this for?

"The goals we pursue are always veiled. A girl who longs for marriage longs for something she knows nothing about. The boy who hankers after fame has no idea what fame is. The thing that gives our every move its meaning is always totally unknown to us." ~ Milan Kundera
 
A girl who longs for marriage may have a powerful belief in lack OR she may have a deep understanding of what joining really is. A boy who hankers after fame may have a core belief of unworthiness OR he may know, at a deep level, that sharing the Truth with many is what he is here to do. You see, what I do is not important but the why shapes my experience. 
Love, Diederik