"Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident." ~ Yalom
Now, letting my life be an 'accident' would be just fine if I enjoyed the 'accident', however that is rarely the case; accidents are generally speaking not enjoyable. I have to take ownership, I have to accept my role as the dreamer of the dream AND I have to accept the faith based position that all ahs always been for me. The question: "What is this for?" now becomes the first thought rather than that old tiresome refrain of "Why is this happening to me?" Piece of cake...
*Diederik is the founder and program director for Choose Again
Diederik Wolsak is program director at Choose Again